Avoid your way to success

jasonleow  •  17 Jul 2025   •    
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Success is largely the failures you avoid.
Health is the injuries you don’t sustain.
Wealth is the purchases you don’t make.
Happiness is the objects you don’t desire.
Peace of mind is the arguments you don’t engage.
Avoid the bad to protect the good.
JamesClear

It’s interesting how we think we need to do that one thing to succeed, but actually success in any field is mostly about avoiding the the common pitfalls that everyone encounters.

Want to be a successful indie hacker solopreneur who earns more than $10k MRR? Just avoid these things:

  • Avoid huge expenses if you can.
  • Avoid chasing shiny objects and distractions.
  • Avoid listening to people who have no skin in the game.
  • Avoid building in isolation.
  • Avoid being lazy about marketing.
  • Avoid perfectionism - it’s just fear of failure in trenchcoat.
  • Avoid overplanning, paralysis by analysis. Prioritise action.
  • Avoid burnout - long term consistency wins every time.
  • Avoid vanity metrics. The best metric is money in the bank.
  • Avoid trying to be unique, just be useful.

That’s it. Just ten things to avoid.

That’s all there is.

Comments

I don’t think James Clear got this one right. I don’t know what @therealbrandonwilson thinks of this, but he sounds like Jim Muddled here. 😜

A poor person avoiding purchases will become wealthy? The vast majority of unhealthy people have avoided injury. This doesn’t make them healthy.

I believe success - especially in business/indiehacking - is primarily a matter of identifying and serving a human want. What do people want? What are they willing to pay for? How can we figure this out? How can we connect with the people who have this want?

Avoiding things is definitely important, but it’s usually not enough to achieve our desired outcomes.

haideralmosawi  •  18 Jul 2025, 3:42 am

I loved the “perfectionism - it’s just fear of failure in trenchcoat” visual, so I asked ChatGPT to create an illustration out of it!

Illustration of 3 men in a trench coat

haideralmosawi  •  18 Jul 2025, 4:28 am

I agree with @haideralmosawi. I see avoidance as a byproduct, not a strategy in itself. And I see your pic and raise you this clip: https://youtu.be/pRzCIuz5Hag?si=HO3BVX-wQdwhg9Kc&t=37

therealbrandonwilson  •  18 Jul 2025, 1:27 pm

@therealbrandonwilson Haha! Not the message I wanted to convey, but a funny vid nonetheless. 🤣

haideralmosawi  •  19 Jul 2025, 10:21 am

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