Big shift

How to tell a big shift is incoming:

• You start to cut off friends, communities, connections which no longer resonate. New identity, new frequency calls for new friends. Less time on drama Twitter, more time with a few tight friends, or just in solitude.
• You start randomly deleting stuff, discarding things. Apps, material things, domains you own, pages and people you used to follow, contacts in your phone. You’re clearing yourself out for some new delight.
• You lose interest—or even get frustrated with, or grieve—things you used to enjoy. Food, places, media, hobbies, music, stuff you buy, stuff you own. Your taste—and life—is recalibrating.
• No longer sucked in or triggered by things that used to do that. You’re just so ready to move on. You want to simply walk away from what’s draining and unhelpful.
• Zero interest in proving yourself to others. Posing on Twitter or social media used to be an addiction. Now it’s cringe. Build in stealth, make money quietly, have fun even though no one’s watching.
• Protective anger. You get angry over things that your old self used to think are ‘normal’. Now it’s not normal, but abnormal that became normalized. Tranquilized. This anger is constructive, not destructive. It pushes you to finally act.
• Lonely but needing it. Shifting away from old ways, old friends, old self can get lonely. No one really understand. Some even blame or hold you back. But you know it’s part of the process.

Big shift incoming.