Memories not money

jasonleow  •  25 Aug 2022   •    
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I once wanted my products to earn $1,000,000/year

Now I’m happy with this:

Photo of me and my boy playing in a ball pit

I tweeted this out as a reminder to myself. It’s a tweet that’s special and close to heart. A emotionally significant one, more than any viral tweet I had.

That life is made of memories not money.

Not achievements. Not any of my entrepreneur or indie hacking goals.

Yes, money, career goals and all are important things to me. They feed me, fulfil me, give me a sense of purpose in my work. But more and more I feel like they are just enablers for other even more important and urgent things. Like being present to my son, creating memories like this with him, together with my wife.

Sure, money, goals create memories too, but I doubt I will recall how my product got #1 on Product Hunt on my deathbed.

Agree, money does buy happiness to a certain extent, and money is needed for survival, and feeding the family is critical, but such memories are free to create.

What’s life’s endgame, ultimately?

Give me a ball pit with my son anytime, over a viral tweet, a grand exit, huge revenue.

Comments

A question I am pondering as I near the end of my week at 40YofZen: In what way can you live your life such that the outcome doesn’t matter?

therealbrandonwilson  •  26 Aug 2022, 2:08 am

I want that too. In Buddhist teachings there’s this concept of aimlessness (not what you think 😆)

https://contemplativeinquiry.blog/2022/01/29/thich-nhat-hanh-on-aimlessness/

jasonleow  •  26 Aug 2022, 6:39 am

Well-timed essay for our discussion. I actually read it in our group today as it reinforces many themes we explored during the week. Thanks for sharing!

therealbrandonwilson  •  27 Aug 2022, 3:34 am

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