Monk mode

jasonleow • 24 Aug 2024 •
Ttttired of the drama, arguing and polarization on X.
Sssstretched from juggling 3-4 jobs every month.
Ffffeeling called to be ever more present as a dad.
I’m losing interest in everything else except that which:
- Makes me more money
- Gets me more time with my kid
- Gives me more joy from creating
All the yapping on X, Telegram chats, and other social channels aren’t helping me with those three priorities. Hobbies, meeting friends for coffees, business networking, leisure activities feel increasingly bothersome. I’ve stopped watching TV. I got no Netflix.
Everything else feels like a distraction.
So why bother?
Going monk mode definitely feels super tempting now.
Why not?
Fk them all.
Comments
Now you know why i regularly disappear from the face of the earth 🙂
for the past few months i have been in 90% MonkMode every day.
gasp finally ready to give up the Church of TwiX?

@lukehollis Agree! Maybe if your users are not on X it makes it easier. But sometimes just have to take a break to do the interesting stuff
@poppacalypse Nice. What’s drawing you into it? A particular project?
@therealbrandonwilson Nope not giving up entirely. It’s still valuable for being ahead on trends, and showing edgey ideas. Just need a break and focus on my own needs.

@jasonleow Not one in particular, but there are goals I want to achieve. Broad categories are in: learning, building projects, fitness.
Not to mention there are annoying but necesssary Life™ things to do each day like household chores etc., plus need to factor in mental health / wind down time at end of day. Not much time left for socials after all these.
I feel this!! Congrats, I know we’re supposed to build in public and build an audience, but I can’t handle all the voices in my head, I have to withdraw, build, come back and share when I’ve found something. Looking forward to hearing how you work out monk mode. I’m with you at least! I know it’s super dangerous to build into a corner where you don’t have users… I just have to do it sometimes.